Not everyone is in a state to be going out with people all the time. Now is not the time for quickies — if he takes his time trying to please you instead of jackhammering your vagina for two minutes and then falling asleep, there may be more to your relationship than just hooking up. By Averi Clements. Do you ever try to get to know your hook-ups? In the next few pages I'll go through the signs that will show whether he wants a relationship or just a hookup through his actionsthrough your conversationsthrough your texting habitsthrough your hookups and through your dates. About Latest Posts. If, for example, he says something boneheaded that hurts your feelings, does he apologize and change his behavior or does he buck up and blame your feelings on you being too emotional?
Does he reply to your texts?
25 Ways to Know He Views You as Just a Hook Up
Here's what she had to say:. Making Excuses in Relationships. Timing is also crucial. In a society where men are constantly made to associate emotions with weakness, opening up can be a step in him not only progressing as a human but possibly taking your relationship to the next level. I spoke to relationship expert and founder of Spoon meet Spoon Meredith Golden about how to tell if someone wants a hookup or a relationship.