If he finds out nowhe can decide whether or not he wants to deal with it. This New World. Gargulinski, Ryn. I am excited but also scared because it's going to change the relationship a lot. My point is that if our experiences me and you, OP can be seen as similar, then I learned this: This is the first time that living together could be in the immediate future instead of the distant future. But even when he misses his old life, all he has to do is look at his girlfriend to remind him why the sacrifice was worth it.
It sounds like you have had some openness in the relationship s to date
Everyone else has addressed the crux of the matter, so I'll just add that yes, when you put it that way, it does seem like you're playing a bit of a game of chicken. Join HuffPost Plus. The moral of the story? Does M know that you're of a "move in or move on" mind right now? So you're allowed to see another person but you have to dump them if and when he chooses to take things further with you?